Networking can be scary for an introverted UX designer, but it is also valuable. Despite the initial discomfort, attending events can open doors, teach you something new, or help you make a new friend. I’ve rarely regretted attending a networking event, as there’s always something valuable to take away.
Over time, I’ve picked up a few tricks to make networking less daunting for fellow introverts. If you’re struggling with networking, I hope these tips will offer some relief.
Tip #1: Know Your Why
Start by clarifying your purpose for attending. Instead of putting pressure on yourself to “network,” focus on broader objectives like learning from others or making new connections. By shifting the focus away from yourself, the pressure eases, and the experience becomes more enjoyable.
Tip #2: Start Small
You can set achievable goals for yourself. You don’t have to immediately aim for a dozen new connections or job referrals. You can start with something manageable, like making just one new connection. It’s a great starting point.
Tip #3: Make Genuine Connections
Networking doesn’t have to feel fake. Tap into your strengths as an introvert by actively listening and engaging in meaningful conversations. Approach each interaction with curiosity, aiming to learn something new about the person you’re talking to. Authenticity goes a long way.
Tip #4: Prepare Your Introduction and Questions
You can quickly get into conversations by preparing a simple introduction and a few questions beforehand. A go-to opening question, like “What brings you here today?” can break the ice and keep the conversation flowing smoothly.
Tip #5: Prepare Your Exit
Stay calm in conversations. Have a polite exit strategy ready for when you need to move on. Whether expressing gratitude and suggesting staying in touch or gracefully excusing yourself to chat with others, having a few lines prepared can alleviate the discomfort of lingering conversations.
Tip #6: Go Alone
While it might seem daunting, attending networking events solo can be liberating. It pushes you out of your comfort zone and encourages you to engage with new people without the safety net of a familiar face.
Bonus Tip: Be Kind to Yourself
It’s alright if only some networking experiences go as planned. Reflect on what went well and what can be improved for next time. Celebrate even the most minor wins. I hope these tips help. Please share your tips and follow me for more stories on UX design, learning, and life.
